Breaking the People-Pleasing Cycle: How Therapy Helps You Reclaim Yourself
There’s a certain kind of exhaustion that comes from always being “the nice one.” The reliable one. The person who says yes, smooths things over, avoids conflict, and keeps everyone else comfortable—even at the expense of their own needs.
Sexual Abuse Survivor Awareness
How Do We Heal From Trauma?
“Healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls your life."
- Akshay Dubey
How Trauma Affects the Brain
“We now know that trauma compromises the brain area that communicates the physical, embodied feeling of being alive. These changes explain why traumatized individuals become hypervigilant to threat at the expense of spontaneously engaging in their day-to-day lives. They also help us understand why traumatized people so often keep repeating the same problems and have such trouble learning from experience. We now know that their behaviors are not the result of moral failings or signs of lack of willpower or bad character–they are caused by actual changes in the brain”
- Bessel A. Van Der Kolk, "The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma"